Safe Sex.

today, i want to talk about sex.

yes.

SEX.

now..

almost everybody who's in a relationship thought of sex. at least once. it's either the guy, or the girl will make the first move.

for me, my first sex experience, was an agreed-by-both-parties one. well, i was just 16 years old that time. first love, very passionate, very affectionate, very in love back then.

well, i never have to worry about buying condoms back then... cos without it, i will never agree to make out. it's not safe. and i don't really trust my ex.

up til now, i'm very particular about this issue.

must have safe sex!

i will never understand people who doesn't want to practice safe sex.

is that so hard?

i know, you must be asking, "don't tell me you never have unprotected sex before?". yes, i have had unprotected ones before, but then it's only when i trust the person and when i know my menstrual cycle well enough. even so, i'll take the morning-after pills after that. but it happens once in a thousand times. rare.

back to what i wanted to say...

is it so hard to go to a nearest pharmacy or kedai runcit or petrol station to buy a packet of condom or pills? plus, it's not expensive. it doesn't cost you a fortune to buy one packet.

girls too. if you know about the risk of having unprotected sex, you don't wait for guys to buy them. you can go buy yourself! if they say the don't want to use it, screw them! (literally..) don't agree to have sex unless they practice a safe one. make a habit and every possible attempt to practice safe sex.

for those who say go for pills, you can. if your body can take it. some people, like one of my relative, she take pills regularly but didn't use condom, still, she got pregnant. doctor told her that her body didn't react to the drug.

i know the possibility is still there if you use a condom, but hey, that's one of the safest and cheapest method for youngsters.

for those who are married and do not want kids yet, plan. consult your doctor. put a diaphragm or IUD or birth control shot. it's not fussy as you only have to do it once and leave for a period of time until the next change.

unlike one of my friends, according to her, her partner doesn't like to use the condom. and they normally opt for the withdrawal method. but then again, this is the most risky method... i ask you, when a guy is very very VERY high and enjoying the intercourse, will he stop what he's doing and think about the future? my opinion is, very high possibility that they won't stop. at that most pleasurable time, they will only think of the way to make them feel more sexited and enjoy the whole process. "forget about the withrawal method... won't get pregnant one.. you think so easy ar? so many people want to get pregnant and they have to fuck try so hard to get a child..". pshh!! instead of contributing to Alam Flora or the Indah Water, he just contributed to his family. a new member of his bloodline.

that is what happened to my friend.

she knew that she's pregnant from the very first month itself. as her friends, we were very concern of this. she aborted twice. and this is the third time. she told us that she will do it once her partner have the money. weeks becomes months... and we almost forgot about it... one fine day, i asked again... "how's the abortion?" she told me she have not went. WHAT????!? apparently she have some argument with her partner. (she's actually thrid party. the man have wives and kids. yes. his current wife if the third wife.) they got married in a temple a month before she's pregnant. they didn't register their marriage. at that time, she told me that she don't want the baby. they had an argument before and she told me that she will leave her partner after she abort the child. she told everybody that she don't want the relationship anymore cos the partner is not good enough, doesn't trust her, bla... bla... so she's waiting for the partner to get money for her to abort the baby. and the time when i asked her, she's already almost 5 months pregnant.

5 fucking MONTHS!!!!!

not 5 weeks...

5 months!! she even have the guts to tell everybody that she'll abort it after she told everybody that she went for scanning and saw the baby's little hands and legs.. and heart..

after a week, she aborted it. so fucking stupid can die few times!!!

after this incident, i hardly want to talk to her anymore.

one of our friends, who really wanted a child but due to some health problem, she couldn't give birth, offered her some money to adopt her baby. she said no.

what she told us behind that poor lady's back?

"why should i give my baby away? i susah-susah pregnant for 9 months and expect me to giveaway the child?? i rather abort it."

she's so stupid that i feel like killing her after i heard that! i thought she will say, "i rather keep it and die-die also raise it..." but no, rather abort it!!! knnccb no brain magechaofahai! got heartbeat, got arms and legs leh!! she heartless bitch! fetus killer!! she will be burned in hell when she die. she will die miserably!!!

ugh!

after abortion, she can say, "dy, you must teach me how to buy condoms now... what's the best, which brand wear already cannot feel, which type will enhance pleasure, etc..." magelanjiaodiuchaohai!! i feel like slapping her there and there... but i didn't la... i just say, "you killer... condoms are all the same," without turning to her. she can still laugh happily and talk about flavoured and weird shape condoms.

bei yan diu lar!