Just Feel Like Ranting.

it's been a while since i last updated.. nothing much to write about. just started new job.. still on training. everything seems to be fine now.. er.. except the money part lah... dunno when only can get my salary from my ex company.. hmm.. so have to wait til end of next month only can get it. ish.. anybody care to sponsor me some funds till my next month pay? hmm.. hehehe..

talk about money.. i want to complain talk about girls who uses guys' money. i know some girls who use guys' money very "willingly" and unembarassingly. i know.. it's normal to use a guy's money in an outing like movies, dinner, clubing, etc. but i still think it's not a very good thing to do.. even boyfriend and girlfriend relationship type.. i damn hate look down on girls who use their other half's money. i mean those 100% use type leh.. you know what i mean? like everytime go out, the guy pays for everything. when i say everything, it really means EVERYTHING. breakfast, lunch, dinner, shopping, movie, drinking, whatever thing that needs money.. it's normal a boyfriend pays for a girlfriend. i don't deny the fact that i do use, and at times even ask, money from Ming. but that's when i'm really in deep-shit-no-money-at-all time.. you get what i mean? or sometimes when we're out for a walk or dinner or something, i'm happy to have him pay for me... but.. at least, i do something in return for him.. like buying breakfast, getting groceries and basic necessities when needed, and i made a point to treat us a nice and cosy dinner at least once a month. a girl friend of mine once told me that it sounded stupid and she told me that i'm "too good" cos i don't let him pay for everything. when i asked why she said that, she told me that most of her girl friends' partner pays for everything. and they never make any gesture to pay them back as if they deserves to be taken care of financially.

i don't agree on that.

some might say that it's the guy's will to spend on a girl. but then, how many of those guys who ACTUALLY really don't care? some might say that it's the guy's "duty" to spend on a girl when they're together. have anybody ever really ask them whether they're (the guys) happy or not? whether they can still survive or not?

i have a friend, i prefer not to mention name here but you know who you are (and to the partner who might be reading this, i hope you will stop doing this to my friend.) , who's not working since the last two months, told me that his expenses a month is around RM1000. Expenses only.. imagine.. he's studying part time and doesn't have a full time job to even support himself.. his savings will soon be used up..

dy: where all your money go lah?

him: eat lor.. go out lor.. i also dunno how can use around RM1000 a month.

dy: you always buy things for your gf meh? (knowing him, he will never buy things for a girl unless it's special ocassion. ask out of curiosity..)

him: no lah! you first day know me meh? i also dun like buying useless stuff for girls one.

dy: then? your money leh?

him: i dunno..

dy: everytime go out, you pay?

him: ya.

dy: eat, movie, toll, petrol, everything that needs money?

him: yalor..

dy: wtf? your gf paralyse already ar?

him: haiya.. i also dunno.. she's my gf mah.. what to do? she's still studying, not working. but normally also i pay one. very automatic.

dy: she never want to pay meh?

him: no wor..

dy: yau mou gao chor ah??? like this also can meh? if no money don't go out lah... your gf also one.. know you not working still wanna use your money.

him: *speechless*..... haih.. that's why lor.. i very sen fu sometimes.. but don't know how to say out. so lately stay at home only lor.

dy: bitch.


hate this kinda girl... not understanding at all... think boyfriend is what? ATM machine ah? tsk tsk.. i'm not saying that i'm very good or what lah.. but hey, at least i know when to demand and when not to ask.

another incident.. another friend of mine.. he's girlfriend's family used to be very rich. but not so rich now lah... they're together for almost 3 years now. renting a double storey house.

him: got one time, we didn't pay rent for 3 months already cos that time i was freelancing, haven't get cheque.. everyday also ngam ngam got money to eat 3 simple meals. one fine day, she came home and showed me an iPod.. "i just bought it.. nice or not?" she said.

can you imagine how speechless i was when i heard this from my friend????? how can she be so insensitive? people didn't pay rent for 3 months, no money eat, she go and buy an iPod!!!!

God bless these people...