i can't even remember i wrote this... found it in "draft".. hehe..apparently i wrote this in march.



I was reading a friend's blog and she raised a question that I feel like discussing it here...

She was asking whether is there really pure friendship between a guy and a girl. She's in doubt.. I'd like to ask... Why not?

A guy and a girl can definitely be good friends. And friends only. Not more than that. That's if both party feels the same. If one of them actually liked the other one, it's called lying. Pure friendship does not includes liar in the relationship. They are frank with each other and both knows clearly that friends are friends. Normally pure guy and girl friendship is very simple.. They know from the start that they won't like each other or they're not the type that each other are looking for. You know what I'm talking about? I know sure some of you will ask, what if as time goes by they like each other? Or one of them like the other one? Simple... Then it's not called pure guy girl friendship la.. Like I've said earlier... If it's one hand clapping, then he/she's a liar.... Broke the rule of pure friendship. But if they liked each other... Er... Both of them are liar from the begining la!!! Simple right? You know what I'm really trying to say? Ugh... It's something that you know from the very beginning la.. Sure got a guy and a girl will remain friends forever one ma.. If every guy and girl that you know also you want to like.. Then everybody will be very busy and stupid.. Like means like la.. Don't like means don't like la.. If like a bit, then don't say pure la.. say you like. say you admire...

My opinion, true friendship and pure guy girl friendship and best guy girl friends are 3 totally different things. Cannot mix them up because the terms they use is also different.

Haiya.. Suddenly I also don't understand what I'm trying to say...

And about.. Can we remain friends with our ex?

Another WHY NOT?

I don't see anything wrong with remaining friends with our ex boyfriends or ex girlfriends... Come on la... There IS a reason why theyr're called ex... It's already past... It's done.. Why can't be friends? And, if you're still friends with your ex, don't hide from your current partner la.. Let them know. Show them that you guys are really friends la.. rather than hiding it and cause other party to think of something else. my opinion, if you hide it, means you still like him/her. be honest only la..

ahh.. whatever la.. i also don't know what i'm writing at this point..

gah!!