The Heart and The Cakes.

"Is it true that when you love someone too much, you're willing to let them go just to give them happiness?"

This is what I wrote in a text the other day. I sent it to him. To my surprise, it helped him. He's back on his feet again. It's been going on for few weeks.. I'm so glad that one simple text pulled him back to reality.

He called me one night, it was really late. He's sobbing on the phone. This was like.. the 3rd time I saw/heard him crying like that. The first time was just a few hours before he leave Malaysia, I cried with him. The second time was few months after he migrated. We were talking on the phone. I cried. He cried with me. This time, he called me at almost dawn, trying to sound cool and talked about normal stuff like, "What are you doing? Why aren't you asleep yet? How are you?" And then, he cried. My heart sank. I could felt what he's feeling at that moment. He didn't cry because of me this time. He cried because of her. Yet, I can still feel it.

Since that night, we've been talking a lot on the phone, instant messaging and SMSing.. I've been trying comfort him. Trying my best to cheer him up. "Look at the bright side.. Give yourself some time... Give her some time.. Don't force yourself to forgive.." But as anyone could guess, everything falls on deaf ears. He started back on drinking. Almost everynight, he drank himself crazy. And he started smoking again, which kinda disappointed cos he stopped for almost 2 years.. Anyway, it's not my problem now tho..

The text wasn't really meant to cheer him up. In fact, it wasn't meant for him. It's just a random question that I asked. But it turned out to be a guidance to him. How cool was that? A single text works like miracle. Better than a thousand words that I've said to comfort him.

Ok.. Enough with stories..

This year is a very special year. Well, according to koffee la... Cos when I reached home with a box of cake yesterday (which I kept since Friday night... :P), she was soooooooo excited that she almost had an orgasm there and then.. She loved the cake SO much!! Hehe... I thought so... Everybody was so busy taking pictures of the cake!

See? Even dad was taking pictures with his phone!

This is my first bite! hehehe.. nice huh? excuse the blur pic..

How cool?

Another shot.

When one is bored...

The cupcakes are actually dark purple, light purple and white... I customized it for debb.. Cos she likes purple.. But then everybody's like.. "Aww.. it's so pretty... Too pretty to be eaten.." and debb is like... "Dad... NO CANDLES!!!" hahahahaa!. Cool right? Dad said we should all celebrate our birthdays with cupcakes instead of the normal big cake because cupcakes are prettier and tastier and... it there's leftover, it's easier to keep.. Damn worth it!! Anybody wants to order? It's from Cuppacakes by Wondermilk. They have many other cool designs and the best thing is, it doesn't cost you an arm! Plus, you can customize the message and color you like! They take orders for baby showers, weddings, birthdays, hen nights & dick nights (special request for adults only), or just because...

They have mini cupcakes, maxi cupcakes and muffin cupcakes... check out their website now!