Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Overreacting.

Hmm.. Talking about best friends and other halves... I seriously think that it's really up to an individual.. how they think about certain things.. how well they can accept their other half's intimacy with their best friends. As a best friend, I do love to see my best friend to have a happy and cheerful relationship. As a girlfriend myself, I'd be delighted to know that my other half is getting along well with his best friend and most importantly, I'd be extremely happy to know that his best friends accept me the way I am too. At least, when I hang out with them, I have things to say and I'll be in their conversation. Unlike some people, they just keep their mouth shut all the time like they have diamond in their mouth. Some of you might ask, "How you know that your other half's friends like you? What if they only pretend to like you?"

Answer is simple.. If they don't like me, they won't be drinking on the same table with me and talk to me... If they don't like me, they won't even come out for a drink when I'm around.. If they don't like me, they won't ask my other half to bring me over for their bachelor's party! Some of you might ask, "What if they're pretending?"

Another simple answer... Let's say I don't like a friend's friend... I won't talk to them so often. I won't even look at them or smile when our eyes meet. And... How long they can pretend? Not tired meh? That's why, it's very simple... If your other half normally don't bring you out when he/she's hanging out with his/her best friends/friends, it's either his/her friends dislike you or it's because you don't want to follow because you don't like them. Simple right?

For those people wholikes to control their other half, please go find your own world, stay there and don't come out! Apa lah! Because of you, they have to sacrifice their time to be with you ALL the time. Or worse... go out less just to satisfy you.. But in fact, he/she is not happy inside.. Because heshe want to make you happy, he/she's unhappy. For me, I wouldn't want Ming to be unhappy just to make me happy. So selfish.

I think people nowadays should be more open and think positively... Your other half need some time to be with his/her friends also lah.. don't be so possessive lah.. Not that his/her friends will snatch him/her away from you.. But then if he/she really leave you because of his friends, then maybe you should think why he/she did that instead of blaming his/her friends.

Told you you should worship me...

4 comments:

The Miserable said...

"For those people wholikes to control their other half, please go find your own world, stay there and don't come out!"

I love this phrase!!

dy said...

tiu,
haha! yalor! i damn 9 dulan those kinda people..

zewt said...

aahhh... brilliant written, couldnt agree more. but some ppl just like to be controlled.

so you're one who never control your ming? sure boh?

dy said...

zewt,
extremely sure!! control what lah.. control.. he so old d, he knows what's right or wrong, what's good and bad..